Sex.... At 66? Are you  kidding me????  I think that is the worst thing about dating again. You go out with a nice guy once and you're back in high school. "Do I kiss him?" If I go too far will he think I'm cheap?  I've decided that there are none of those stupid rules for me anymore.  First of all the only reason we were afraid to have sex at teenagers was the fear of pregnancy. That isn't happening , so what's the hold up.=? Afraid he'll think you're a slut?  HA! that train has left the station. By this age we've all had sex and probably a lot of it. There's no pretending we're virgins or have some stellar reputation to uphold. I like sex. Didn't so much with my ex but have found out that now I am much more relaxed (a little help from the Energizer Bunny if you get my drift). has taught me I can have an orgasm and not be embarrassed.

I read a funny article once that said as part of your final arrangements you should designate some friend that as soon as you die, she will run to your house and clear your hard drive and rid your night stand of all the sex toys before your kids get there to pack up your stuff.

I do have this nagging little fear that I'll have a heart attack in bed and they'll find me with a vibrator in my vagina.  AAUURRGH!  Could there be anything worse?  Hope I'll have enough time to yank it out if that happens.  I know, you're thinking this is really stupid, but when you live alone, these things rattle around in your head. It's also another good reason to wear full make up all the time. (crazy?? )

I am amazed at the, how shall I say it, diminutive size that most men in their late 50's and 60's are.
Maybe I'm spoiled my ex was an asshole but he was hung like a horse. Men I meet now are teeny weeny in comparison.  If they manage an erection, I can't even feel him in there. Having birthed 3 kids. I'm not as tight as I once was.  They still manage to make comments about that so as to blame me for the failure in bed. Have yet to have a really successful night. All that in mind, I'm doing just find on my own. 

 And please if any men are reading this. Ditch the tighty whiteys.  I haven't seen them since my kids were 7. A grown man should wear grown men under ware. Those TW's are a total turn off. Plus they've probably had them for years and they are always dingy and saggy.  Do they even sell then any more? Probably bought by there ex-wives 35 years ago.

When I was first divorced, I was trying very hard to feel young and beautiful. Got some passes from younger (40's) men and went out with some. Got that out of my system. I wanted to see what the attraction was since my husband decided he wanted someone that age. That didn't last long. If I had got divorced 15 years ago things would be very different. My husband claimed that the marriage was over 15 years before. If that was true, I wish he had divorced me then I would be 50 now. Young enough to easily start over in my love life and career. Not so much now.

There is a new TV show on Bravo TV called "A Girlfriends Guid to Divorce" Very funny. If you haven't seen it, check it out. Some of the lines are identical to lines I've written in this blog. I assume they aren't reading this, so it's probably just a universal thing.  If they are getting ideas from this, I want my check!  I see myself somehow in every show. The star also has 3 friends who could be any of our friends. Great show. Will give you a  laugh.